A Self-less Leadership Act

A Self-less Leadership Act

Posted on 28. Feb, 2011 by in 1 Leadership, People & Change

We live in a world where the praises of success quickly fade away to the question of “What will you do next?”  This isn’t a cynical statement, but merely a statement of fact.  Much is demanded from us in this rapidly changing society shaping our world – or is it the reverse?  Nonetheless, we are constantly called forward to contribute, and each time the bar is raised.  This fact also applies to leadership.

It is no longer enough for leaders to lead.  The bar is raised so high that leading becomes a redundant act.  We must pull deep from the culmination of our experiences and learn when not to lead but to also follow.

The leader/follower is a keen observer.  The leader knows when it’s best to fall back and let come forward another person’s leadership.  It’s not a dictate based on the leader’s role.  The circumstances demand this.  The elements, in a poetic sense, of a situation are the cues to the leader to become a follower. And in a strategic way, the desired outcome also triggers the switch.  In short, when a leader switches to be a follower it is to let others shine. To have their moment to succeed. To lead a team to an outcome that the leader could not do nearly as well.

For a leader to be a follower it is a self-less leadership act. It takes a humbled, experienced leader to let go of the ego’s need to be front and center. It removes distracting, unnecessary conversations and actions.  In its place are crisp, purposeful conversations and actions that lead to best possible outcomes.

I Love Me XSmall 150x150 A Self less Leadership ActThere is no time or space for self-centered leaders in this hyper-competitive world.  Sure nothing can be done for the many leaders who don’t get this reality.  They will become less and less relevant in this world.  But they will not go away quietly.  We will continue to experience the horrific outcomes caused by their greed, self-centered aims, and hunger for power.  But they are really performing below the bar.

To end where I started, the self-less leader who can also be a follower continually learns from the culmination of his experiences.  The leadership spotlight is something to be shared.  It is a benefit to the organizational community.  It is a benefit to the customers.  In this New Normal, leader/followers get how connected people become when they can leave their fingerprints on that “something” that leads to success.

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3 Responses to “A Self-less Leadership Act”

  1. Tara Alemany

    28. Feb, 2011

    Hi, Shawn.

    I love your post! I especially liked the closing line that “leader/followers get how connected people become when they can leave their fingerprints on that ‘something’ that leads to success.” I believe that’s part of this craving we all have for a sense of community. As a community, we can collectively accomplish bigger and greater things than we typically can as individuals, and there’s a rush that comes from that. Working together on something, even if it’s something we’d rather not be doing, is made so much easier when there are others leaving their fingerprints with us in the effort.

    Thanks for the reminder!

    - Tara

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    • Shawn Murphy

      28. Feb, 2011

      Tara,
      Your comments made me think about the trap many of us fall into thinking, “It’s easier if I just do this myself.” The opportunity to connect with others on that “something” may be more time consuming, but can be so much more rewarding.

      Thanks for stopping by,
      Shawn

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  2. Geoff Snyder

    02. Mar, 2011

    Hey Shawn,

    I read this over a few times and the term “Servant Leadership” continued to come to mind.

    Leading for those to see the example they wish to reflect onto others is an excellent example of selfless leadership. When the lead/follow model is tuned up and in motion, those “leading” will always know when it’s best to step aside and allow those who do what they do best, do exactly that.

    This reminds me of something Susan Mazza mentioned on a recent post of mine, she said “When our relationships are strong there seems to be a natural shifting between leading and following especially among people in these self organizing communities.”

    I could not of said it any better. Such a great way to explain a bond within any team and/or organization.

    As always, thank you for another great post and for sharing it with others.

    Best regards,
    Geoff

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